October 10, 2016 – Regnum Somniorum

astroadvice:

venus: how you act in love and relationships. feminine energies
(typically, females express their venus more than their mars when showing romantic interest, as venus is a feminine and passive planet and projects femininity*)

mars: sexual attraction, passion and anger. masculine energies
(typically, males express their venus more than their mars when showing romantic interest, as mars is a masculine and active planet and projects masculinity*)

(if you don’t know their venus or mars signs, look here)

Venus

aries: they are not subtle. if they like you, they will be outright flirting and not really trying to hide it. they lose interest quickly, so if you’re keeping the conversation alive and keeping them interested, good on you. if they’re trying to keep the conversation flowing, especially when there could be a awkward pause in a conversation, that’s a sign that they could be into you.

taurus: will be very loyal to you and act almost like they’re in a relationship already. they spend a lot of their time with you/talking to you, and seem committed to you already. they can be quite touchy-feely, so if they are being cuddly or trying to hold hands or other tactile methods, they could be interested.

gemini: can be a bit of a natural flirt, they’ll make witty comments and probably initiate a lot of the conversation. they like to be intellectually stimulated, so if you can keep up with them on whatever subject they’ve led you to and voice your own (well-educated on the subject) opinions, they’ll be more interested. if they do like you, when the conversation runs to a halt, they will try to continue it by asking something new/starting a new topic. they won’t let the conversation run out with someone they like.

cancer: they will really try to get to know you emotionally, so that they can understand you more deeply and bond with you, and so that they can care for you in an appropriate way. these people are the types who would bake you cookies and come over with the whole happy potter series if you’re feeling down. they can be quite friendly to everyone, but they’ll be trying to spend as much time with you as possible if they’re interested in you.

leo: they will really play up their emotions and give their 110% into your relationship even if there’s nothing romantic going on yet. they don’t like to be bored, and will be trying to keep you entertained – with them as the entertainer – so you don’t have to be bored either. they will be very loving and adoring and will expect the same in return. if you seem to be holding back the love, they might get quite frustrated if they like you.

virgo: they’ll try to change you to be a better person, they’ll point out your flaws and try to help you be the best version of you. they will really want to get to know you first, so if they like you, a lot of time will be spent getting to know you as deeply as possible. they like to know who they’re dealing with before jumping into a relationship. they can also be quite shy, and aren’t the likeliest sign to tell you how they feel first.

libra: it can be quite hard to tell, because these are the typical sociable and sometimes an ‘accidental flirt’ types. if they’re really interested in you, what may change from their normal behaviour is that they may become a little bit more clingy. they’ll want to make sure that you feel comfortable, and will be polite and well-mannered around you.

scorpio: can either be quite bold, or very shy. either way, they’re likely to spend a lot of time gazing at you. the shy types will try to get into situations where they’re near you, but they might not necessarily say anything for their nervousness, and will usually be a little distance away from you, staring at the ground and blushing if you’re looking at them. the type that are more direct will be very direct, and will probably outright flirt with you and make it quite clear that they like you – it is really hard to miss.

sagittarius: they’ll want to know a lot about you, all your views, all your opinions. they’ll want to go places with you and have adventures. they’re very social, but in a social situation that includes the person they like, they will spend more time around them and try to initiate conversations with them. they’re not shy either, and might just prefer to tell you their feelings outright instead of waiting for you to make a move.

capricorn: really bad at flirting!! don’t know how to do it! it might happen accidentally with people they don’t like romantically, but they just can’t figure it out with people they do like. they’ll ask a lot of questions, try to find out what you’re like, what your future plans are, get to know you really well. they might get a little upset if you’re talking to someone else instead of them all the time or put them in second place. they might initiate conversation, but if it trails off and they feel that they’re annoying you, they’d let it die unless you bring it back again.

aquarius: they’ll tell you a lot about themselves, so that you know how interesting they are and how much fun they can be. they don’t like clinginess, so don’t expect messages from them 24/7, but if they’re talking to you and initiating conversations a lot of the time thats a good sign that they’re interested. they might want to introduce you to their friends, or take you places with them like social gatherings and parties.

pisces: they usually go out of their way to help their friends anyway, but will be extra attentive to someone they like. they’ll want to get to know you, asking mostly trivial things, and will keep the mood quite light for the most of the time, but will sometimes slip into really deep conversations and try to see a side of you that other people don’t.

Mars

aries: can be really excitable and try to show off. will be more optimistic than normal, they’ll try get you involved in everything. If they aren’t big on games, they may just tell you outright – it takes a little persuasion and courage on their part and you allowing them to feel comfortable around you, but they would rather just tell you outright than leave it to guessing.

taurus: can be a little possessive of you, also quite likely to be pretty touchy-feely and would want to spend a lot of time with you in person. can be a little demanding and might want you to talk to them all the time if they like you. if they like you, they’d get very jealous when you spend time with another guy and it would be preeetty obvious.

gemini: they like change, so if they’re still talking to you after a while, then you’re probably in the clear. they don’t like being bored, so if they like you, they’d be initiating conversations and asking questions and not letting the conversation die.

cancer: will talk to you a lot, and it’ll be quite obvious if they like you. they’ll want to spend time with you and will look for excuses to talk to you or see you more often. they will try to make you feel safe, and the amount of time they want to spend with you could come off as a little bit clingy sometimes but they just want to be there with you for everything.

leo: is really romantic in the sense that they’ll make you their number one priority and since they’re very dramatic, they’ll probably attempt a lot of impressive gestures to win your favour. they’re very prideful, so if they’re sharing information about themselves which could lead to their downfall (personal info that not many people know), it shows that they trust you.

virgo: if they can really relax with you, that’s amazing. they find it hard to chill out and stop over-analysing things, so if your company makes them able to relax, you’re definitely something special to them (whether romantic or platonic). they’ll notice all the little details about you and remember everything, and they’ll use their memory to show how much they care.

libra: can be quite flirty in general, they’re people pleasers. they’ll want to spend time one on one, and they’ll listen to you and try to find out everything about you. they hate to be alone, and if you’re the person they often pick to spend time with/accompany them somewhere, they may like you.

scorpio: very powerful and intense, they’ll want to spend a lot of time with you and can be very jealous. they have very strong feelings in general, if you’re lucky enough to know all about their inner feelings and they tell you all of their deepest, darkest secrets, they might be interested.

sagittarius: will try to become your friend first and scope you out, make sure you’re able to keep up in intellectual conversations. they would share all their opinions on as many different topics as they can, and always be up for a good debate. they’re quite likely to just actually tell you their feelings if they do have any for you, as they’re very to the point and don’t like wasting time.

capricorn: usually isn’t too obvious, because as with capricorn venus, they can be quite distant and emotionally shy. if they’re trying to organize things with you, plan out a trip or a meeting with you or a group of people and you, they could be trying to set apart time for you two to spend time together. they’ll take their time to decide on you, and that could take a very looong time, and they may not even be the first to tell you that they’re interested. if you think they like you, you should probably try to make the first move or it just might not happen.

aquarius: they can usually be quite cold to people, so if they’re showing you some warmth that’s a good sign. If they’re talking to you throughout the day while they’re busy doing other things, that’s great. they dislike pointless conversation, and they prefer talking about things that are interesting to them with people they care about. they look for like-minded individuals, and if you show them that you think the same way, you stand a good chance.

pisces: they’ll try to get to know you, and ask you questions that won’t be too personal for fear of scaring you away. they may be a little shy, or humble even, when you ask them questions about themselves or things that they’re good at/into. if they share their opinions on more serious subjects (political views, global warming, war, etc) rather than just on meaningless things to fill the space, that can be a good sign.